Metaphors of Unity Focus questions: ? To what degree of unity are we called? ? What effect does this unity have on those within the Baha'i community? ? What effect does it have on people in the larger community? "In these days it is incumbent upon everyone to adhere* tenaciously* unto unity and concord . . ." Bahá'u'lláh, Tablets of Bahá'u'lláh, p. 60. "Become as true brethren in the one and indivisible religion of God, free from distinction, for verily God desireth that your hearts should become mirrors unto your brethren in the Faith, so that ye find yourselves reflected in them, and they in you." The Báb, Selections from the Báb, p. 56. "How good it is if the friends be as close as sheaves* of light, if they stand together side by side in a firm unbroken line. For now have the rays of reality from the Sun of the world of existence, united in adoration all the worshippers of this light; and these rays have, through infinite grace, gathered all peoples together within this wide-spreading shelter; therefore must all souls become as one soul, and all hearts as one heart. Let all be set free from the multiple identities that were born of passion and desire, and in the oneness of their love for God find a new way of life." 'Abdu'l-Bahá, Selections from the Writings of 'Abdu'l-Bahá, p. 76. "O Well-Beloved Ones! The tabernacle of unity hath been raised; regard ye not one another as strangers. Ye are the fruits of one tree, and the leaves of one branch." Bahá'u'lláh, Gleanings from the Writings of Bahá'u'lláh, p. 217. "Be ye as the fingers of one hand, the members of one body." Bahá'u'lláh, Gleanings from the Writings of Bahá'u'lláh, p. 140. "Know ye not why We created you all from the same dust? That no one should exalt himself over the other. Ponder at all times in your hearts how ye were created. Since We have created you all from one same substance it is incumbent on you to be even as one soul, to walk with the same feet, eat with the same mouth and dwell in the same land, that from your inmost being, by your deeds and actions, the signs of oneness and the essence of detachment may be made manifest." Bahá'u'lláh, Hidden Words, Arabic # 68. It is my hope that. . . these many rivers, each flowing along in diverse and separated beds, will find their way back to the circumambient* sea, and merge together and rise up in a single wave of surging oneness; that the unity of truth, through the power of God, will make these illusory differences to vanish away." 'Abdu'l-Bahá, Selections from the Writings of 'Abdu'l-Bahá, p. 30. "One of the most paramount needs of the Cause . . . is that the friends should unite, should become really keenly conscious of the fact that they are one spiritual family, held together by bonds more sacred and eternal than those physical ties which make people of the same family." Letter written on behalf of Shoghi Effendi, October 26, 1943, in Dawn of a New Day, p. 106. "Wherefore, O ye beloved of the Lord, bestir yourselves, do all in your power to be as one, to live in peace, each with the others: for ye are all the drops from but one ocean, the foliage of one tree, the pearls from a single shell, the flowers and sweet herbs from the same one garden. And achieving that, strive ye to unite the hearts of those who follow other faiths." 'Abdu'l-Bahá, Selections from the Writings of 'Abdu'l-Bahá, p. 280. "Bring those who have been excluded into the circle of intimate friends." 'Abdu'l-Bahá, in Compilation of Compilations, vol. 2, (youth) p. 415, #2234; also in Education p. 293, #648. *Adhere: to cling to; to hold closely or firmly *Tenacious: holding fast; characterized by keeping a firm hold; persistent, stubborn; cohesive; not easily pulled asunder * Sheaf or sheaves: a bundle in which wheat or other grains are bound together after reaping * Circumambient: surrounding or encompassing Practices that Undermine Unity Read the following quotations and compile a list of practices mentioned. For each practice on your list, answer these focus questions: ? Who is hurt by this practice? ? What damage does this practice do to unity? " . . [there exists in the American community] the tendency of the friends to criticize each other at the slightest provocation, whereas the Teachings call upon them to encourage each other. Such tendencies are of course motivated by a deep love for the Faith, a desire to see it free of any flaw. But human beings are not perfect. The Local Assemblies and the friends must be helped through your example and through loving counsel to refrain from such a pattern of criticism, which stunts the growth and development of the community." The Universal House of Justice, letter dated May 19, 1994, in Rights and Responsibilities: The Complementary Roles of the Individual and Institutions, p. 46. "The fact that we imagine ourselves to be right and everybody else wrong is the greatest of all obstacles in the path towards unity. . . ." 'Abdu'l-Bahá, Paris Talks, p. 136. "The beloved Master pointed out over and over again that unity and love among the friends promotes harmony and the rapid spread of the Faith, and that when these are sacrificed and disputes, anger and violent criticism take their place, the Cause cannot move forward." Letter written on behalf of Shoghi Effendi, in Letters to Australia and New Zealand, pp. 57-58. "Does not 'Abdu'l-Bahá wish us, as He looks down upon us with loving expectation from His glorious Station, to obliterate as much as possible all traces of censure, of conflicting discussions, of cooling remarks, of petty unnecessary observations that impede the onward march of the Cause, that damp the zeal of the firm believer and detracts from the sublimity of the Bahá'í Cause in the eyes of the inquirer?" Shoghi Effendi, in Bahá'í Administration, p. 19. "That seeker must . . . refrain from idle talk. For the tongue is a smouldering fire, and excess of speech a deadly poison. Material fire consumeth the body, whereas the fire of the tongue devoureth both heart and soul. The force of the former lasteth but for a time, whilst the effects of the latter endure a century. "That seeker should also regard backbiting as grievous error, and keep himself aloof from its dominion, inasmuch as backbiting quencheth the light of the heart, and extinguisheth the life of the soul." Bahá'u'lláh, The Kitáb-i-Iqán, p. 193. "O beloved of the Lord! If any soul speak ill of an absent one, the only result will clearly be this: he will dampen the zeal of the friends and tend to make them indifferent. For backbiting is divisive, it is the leading cause among the friends of a disposition to withdraw. . . . it would make the dust to settle so thickly on the heart that the ears would hear no more, and the eyes would no longer behold the light of truth." 'Abdu'l-Bahá, Selections from the Writings of 'Abdu'l-Bahá, pp. 230- 231. "In order to achieve this cordial unity one of the first essentials insisted on by Bahá'u'lláh and 'Abdu'l-Bahá is that we resist the natural tendency to let our attention dwell on the faults and failings of others rather than on our own. Each of us is responsible for one life only, and that is our own. Each of us is immeasurably far from being 'perfect as our heavenly father is perfect' and the task of perfecting our own life and character is one that requires all our attention, our will-power and energy. If we allow our attention and energy to be taken up in efforts to keep others right and remedy their faults, we are wasting precious time. We are like ploughmen each of whom has his team to manage and his plough to direct, and in order to keep his furrow straight he must keep his eye on his goal and concentrate on his own task. If he looks to this side and that to see how Tom and Harry are getting on and to criticize their ploughing, then his own furrow will assuredly become crooked." Letter written on behalf of Shoghi Effendi, May 12, 1925, in Lights of Guidance (5th ed.), p. 92, #318. ". . . the House of Justice points out that learning not to concern oneself with the faults of others seems to be one of the most difficult lessons for people to master, and that failing in this is a fertile cause of disputes among Bahá'ís as it is among men and women in general." Letter written on behalf of the Universal House of Justice, August 13, 1980, in Lights of Guidance (5th ed.), pp. 89-90, #309. Practices that Build Unity Read the following quotations and compile a list of practices mentioned. For each practice on your list, answer these focus questions: ? What effect does this practice have on the individual who performs it? ? What effect does this practice have on other individuals or the community as a whole? "Strive ye by day and night to cultivate your unity to the fullest degree. Let your thoughts dwell on your own spiritual development, and close your eyes to the deficiencies of other souls. Act ye in such wise, showing forth pure and goodly deeds, and modesty and humility, that ye will cause others to be awakened." 'Abdu'l-Bahá, Selections from the Writings of 'Abdu'l-Bahá, p. 203. ". . . laugh, smile and rejoice in order that others may be made happy by you." 'Abdu'l-Bahá, Promulgation of Universal Peace, p. 218. "One must see in every human being only that which is worthy of praise. When this is done, one can be a friend to the whole human race. If, however, we look at people from the standpoint of their faults, then being a friend to them is a formidable task. . . . "Thus is it incumbent upon us, when we direct our gaze toward other people, to see where they excel, not where they fail." 'Abdu'l-Bahá, Selections from the Writings of 'Abdu'l-Bahá, p. 169. "Humanity is not perfect. There are imperfections in every human being, and you will always become unhappy if you look toward the people themselves. But if you look toward God, you will love them and be kind to them, for the world of God is the world of perfection and complete mercy. Therefore, do not look at the shortcomings of anybody; see with the sight of forgiveness. The imperfect eye beholds imperfections. The eye that covers faults looks toward the Creator of souls." 'Abdu'l-Bahá, Promulgation of Universal Peace, p. 93. ". . . the Cause of the Ancient Beauty is the very essence of love, the very channel of oneness, existing only that all may . . . bless one another, praise one another; that each one may loose his tongue and extol the rest without exception, each one voice his gratitude to all the rest; that all should lift up their eyes to the horizon of glory, and remember that they are linked to the Holy Threshold; that they should see nothing but good in one another, hear nothing but praise of one another, and speak no word of one another save only to praise." 'Abdu'l-Bahá, Selections from the Writings of 'Abdu'l-Bahá, pp. 229- 230. "If . . . a person setteth about speaking well of another, opening his lips to praise another, he will touch an answering chord in his hearers and they will be stirred up by the breathings of God." 'Abdu'l-Bahá, Selections from the Writings of 'Abdu'l-Bahá, p. 231. "The real secret of universal participation lies in the Master's oft-expressed wish that the friends should love each other, constantly encourage each other, work together, be as one soul in one body, and in so doing become a true, organic healthy body animated and illuminated by the spirit. In such a body all will receive spiritual health and vitality from the organism itself, and the most perfect flowers and fruits will be brought forth." The Universal House of Justice, September 1964, in Messages from the Universal House of Justice, 1963-1986, p. 43. "Let all your striving be for this, to become the source of life and immortality, and peace and comfort and joy, to every human soul, whether one known to you or a stranger, one opposed to you or on your side." 'Abdu'l-Bahá, Selections from the Writings of 'Abdu'l-Bahá, pp. 256- 257. Practicing Active Kindness Focus questions: ? What are ways in which individual believers can practice "active kindness"? ? What are ways in which communities can practice "active kindness"? "The people of the world not only need the laws and principles of the Bahá'í Faith – they desperately need to see the love that is engendered by it in the hearts of its followers, and to partake of that atmosphere of tolerance, understanding, forbearance and active kindness which should be the hallmark* of a Bahá'í Community." Letter written on behalf of Shoghi Effendi, letter dated December 5, 1952, to an individual, in Lights of Guidance, p. 405. "The oneness of mankind, which is at once the operating principle and ultimate goal of His Revelation, implies the achievement of a dynamic coherence* between the spiritual and practical requirements of life on earth." The Universal House of Justice, October 20, 1983, in Messages of the Universal House of Justice, 1963-1986, p. 602. "What the believers need is not only, as you state, to really study the teachings, but also to have more peace-makers circulating among them." Letter written on behalf of Shoghi Effendi, to an individual believer, dated January 11, 1950, in Lights of Guidance, pp 89-90. "Be thou a summoner to love, and be thou kind to all the human race. Love thou the children of men and share in their sorrows. Be thou of those who foster peace. Offer thy friendship, be worthy of trust. Be thou a balm to every sore, be thou a medicine for every ill. Bind thou the souls together." 'Abdu'l-Bahá, Selections from the Writings of 'Abdu'l-Bahá, p. 26. "Assist the world of humanity as much as possible. Be the source of consolation to every sad one, assist every weak one, be helpful to every indigent one, care for every sick one, be the cause of glorification to every lowly one, and shelter those who are overshadowed by fear." 'Abdu'l-Bahá, Promulgation of Universal Peace, p. 453. "Concern yourselves with one another. Help along one another's projects and plans. Grieve over one another. Let none in the whole country go in need. Befriend one another until ye become as a single body, one and all. . . ." 'Abdu'l-Bahá, in Consultation, pp. 98-99. * Hallmark: an official mark or stamp indicating a standard of purity, used in marking gold or silver; any mark or special indication of genuineness or good quality; a distinguishing feature or characteristic * Coherence: natural or logical connection; consistency Sample Ways to Practice "Active Kindness" "Unity-grams" Selections from the Writings coupled with loving wishes and suggestions that the recipient offers prayers for the unity of the community and send the "unity-gram" on to other members of the community, either anonymously or with a personal note. See a sample on the following page. Events, such as a special dinner, to unite different groups within the community For example, a family in Skokie, Illinois, decided to bridge a perceived gulf between Persian- and American-born believers, spurred by a youth who asked his parents whether more could be done to create unity. They held a unity gathering in their home, where Persian friends could tell of coming to America and American friends could share elements of their lives. Feasting on Persian delicacies, the believers heard stories of courage and patience and felt drawn closer together. The gathering was so successful that another family is making sure the gatherings continue regularly. Events to honor a particular segment of the community For example, youth in the greater Philadelphia, Pennsylvania area organized a special night of honor for the region's older Bahá'ís to help strengthen the bond among members of the community. The gathering ended with each older community member receiving a rose. Add ideas that your group or other groups come up with that you would like to consider further: Sample "UNITY-GRAM" "O well-beloved ones! The tabernacle of unity hath been raised; regard ye not one another as strangers. Ye are the fruits of one tree, and the leaves of one branch." Tablets of Bahá'u'lláh, p. 164. "How good it is if the friends be as close as sheaves of light. . . ." Selections from the Writings of 'Abdu'l-Bahá, p. 76. "Concern yourselves with one another. Help along one another's projects and plans. Grieve over one another. Let none in the whole country go in need. Befriend one another until ye become as a single body, one and all. . . ." 'Abdu'l-Bahá, in Consultation, pp. 98-99. ". . . the Cause of the Ancient Beauty is the very essence of love, the very channel of oneness, existing only that all may become the waves of one sea, and bright stars of the same endless sky, and pearls within the shell of singleness, and gleaming jewels quarried from the mines of unity; that they may become servants one to another, adore one another, bless one another, praise one another; that each one may loose his tongue and extol the rest without exception, each one voice his gratitude to all the rest; that all should lift up their eyes to the horizon of glory, and remember that they are linked to the Holy Threshold; that they should see nothing but good in one another, hear nothing but praise of one another, and speak no word of one another save only to praise." Selections from the Writings of 'Abdu'l-Bahá, pp. 229-30. "If you desire with all your heart, friendship with every race on earth, your thought, spiritual and positive, will spread; it will become the desire of others, growing stronger and stronger, until it reaches the minds of all men." – Paris Talks, pp. 29-30. You have just received a UNITY-GRAM. Please take a moment to reread these passages. Feel the warmth of the love that radiates to you from your Bahá'í family. Sense the prayers for your growth and happiness that accompany this UNITY-GRAM. Consider offering a prayer for the unity of the community. As you sit quietly, see which member of the community comes to mind as someone to whom you can send a copy of this UNITY- GRAM. It may be someone that you know well or someone you would like to get to know better. It may be someone you see often or someone you haven't seen for some time. It may be someone with whom you are very close or someone from whom you have felt distant. If more than one person comes to mind, send a UNITY- GRAM to each. You may want to include a personal note. Ponder a moment on how many UNITY-GRAMs might flow through our community. What connections and patterns might they make? What results might they have? "We love to see you at all times consorting in amity and concord within the paradise of My good pleasure, and to inhale from your acts the fragrance of friendliness and unity, of loving kindness and fellowship." – Bahá'u'lláh, Gleanings, p. 315. Planning Sheet for "Daily Deeds of Constructive Spiritual Living" ". . . translate the ideals of the Cause into daily deeds of constructive spiritual living. . ." Letter written on behalf of Shoghi Effendi, in Centers of Bahá'í Learning, p. 10, #25. "The friends must, at all times, bear in mind that they are, in a way, like soldiers under attack. The world is at present in an exceedingly dark condition spiritually; hatred and prejudice, of every sort, are literally tearing it to pieces. We, on the other hand, are the custodians of the opposite forces, the forces of love, of unity, of peace and integration, and we must constantly be on our guard, whether as individuals or as an Assembly or Community, lest through us these destructive, negative forces enter into our midst. In other words we must beware lest the darkness of society become reflected in our acts and attitudes, perhaps all unconsciously. Love for each other, the deep sense that we are a new organism, the dawn-breakers of a New World Order, must constantly animate our Bahá'í lives. . ." Letter written on behalf of Shoghi Effendi, in Lights of Guidance, pp. 405-6. "One can hardly imagine what a great influence genuine love, truthfulness and purity of motives exert on the souls of men. But these traits cannot be acquired by any believer unless he makes a daily effort to gain them. . . ." Shoghi Effendi, July 22, 1946, in Living the Life, p. 8. How will I build unity in my community by decreasing a negative practice? How will I build unity in my community by cultivating a positive practice? How will I use my unity metaphor to strengthen and assist me in my efforts in these areas? Assurances of Divine Confirmations "Try with all your hearts to be willing channels for God's Bounty. For I say unto you that He has chosen you to be His messengers of love throughout the world, to be His bearers of spiritual gifts to man, to be the means of spreading unity and concord on the earth. Thank God with all your hearts that such a privilege has been given unto you. For a life devoted to praise is not too long in which to thank God for such a favour." 'Abdu'l-Bahá, Paris Talks, p. 68. "By looking for the good in others, by praising and encouraging our fellow believers in their endeavours, by acting mercifully and lovingly towards them, forgiving instead of insisting that they be brought to justice because we feel they may have wronged us, by trying all the time to purify the motives of our conduct in the hope that our services will be acceptable in the sight of Bahá'u'lláh, and by constant prayer that He may forgive our shortcomings and aid us to radiantly, patiently and selflessly promote the vital interests of our Cause, we can become the sources of unity in the community and instruments in the hands of the Almighty to use according to His Will and Purpose." Letter written on behalf of the Universal House of Justice, December 25, 1983, in Behold Me: Bahá'í Writings on Unity, p. 88, #197. "Bahá'u'lláh has drawn the circle of unity, He has made a design for the uniting of all the peoples, and for the gathering of them all under the shelter of the tent of universal unity. This is the work of the Divine Bounty, and we must all strive with heart and soul until we have the reality of unity in our midst, and as we work, so will strength be given unto us." 'Abdu'l-Bahá, Paris Talks, p. 54. "So intensely hath the glory of Divine Unity penetrated souls and hearts that all are now bound one to another with heavenly ties, and all are even as a single heart, a single soul. Wherefore reflections of the spirit and impressions of the Divine are now mirrored clear and sharp in the deep heart's core. I beg of God to strengthen these spiritual bonds as day followeth day, and make this mystic oneness to shine ever more brightly, until at last all shall be as troops marshalled together beneath the banner of the Covenant within the sheltering shade of the Word of God; that they may strive with all their might until universal fellowship, close and warm, and unalloyed love, and spiritual relationships, will connect all the hearts in the world. Then will all humankind, because of this fresh and dazzling bounty, be gathered in a single homeland. Then will conflict and dissension vanish from the face of the earth, then will mankind be cradled in love for the beauty of the All-Glorious." 'Abdu'l-Bahá, Selections from the Writings of 'Abdu'l-Bahá, pp. 19-20. 1